Day Two

Blokey Boyfriend is working night shifts. Which means that he & Blogger Girlfiend are rarely seeing each other.
So what are your weekend plans I ask him? Bearing in mind he works most weekends. When he is not working, he is either too tired to do anything. Or his brother spends the entire weekend with us (I don't think BB grasps the concept of quality time)
I have a thing on Sat night I'd really like to go to and I'd like you to come too.
Some of my friends of friends were amazed to hear I have a boyfriend. I meet friends for lunches, dinners and coffees and BB is either, you got it, working or doing something really important which usually does not include me.
Turns out that BB has a friend's party on Sat night.
I didn't hear about it and I am not included.
So naturally I snapped at him. It's always about his friends, his brother, his drinking and going to see his friends over the weekends he doesn't have work. He hates quality time because he feels that he spends enough time with me and comes home to our place we live in every night.
He doesn't get that of course he comes home after work, his lives there, there isn't any effort involved.
I have tried many many times to explain that quality time is dinner, movies, breakfasts, weekends away, going somewhere as a couple - quality time to me is not coming home from work exhausted and doing the usual. I'd like some sort of effort.
He hates the concept.
When I snapped at him about Saturday night and pointed out that he is included, he got invited, people who never see him with me still include him ... he pointed out that it is just as important that he sees his friends.
Out.